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LIFE AFTER A LOVED ONE'S SUICIDE

  "No matter how beautifully your life is arranged, no matter how lovingly you tend to it, it will not stay that way forever."  Kathryn Schulz There was a time when our lives were beautifully lived, embraced with tender and caring love,  full of simple joy and happiness. Our future bright with shared affection, promises and dreams. A normal day begins with its daily routine, then in an instant - it ends tragically. A sudden suicide, a devastating death and all was lost, all was gone - our lives forever changed, never the same again. Life after a loved one's suicide is heartbreaking, horrendous, horrifyingly hard. Nothing in our lives has prepared us for the shocking sadness and sorrow that overwhelmed us - lost within ourselves, consumed with profound feelings of hopelessness and helplessness. Although we are dearly embraced by our family and friends, we feel alone and abandoned as we mostly suffer in silence - at night we cry, not until we fall asleep but until the sun r