JANUARY IS A CRUEL MONTH



January is a cruel month, a bleak, coldhearted month. January is a dark, desolate month, a month of depression, despair and desperation.  A month when sadness creeps into one's soul and lingers and festers until one starts thinking of the need to escape, to leave life behind - because January is a suicidal month.

But before you start making plans, remember these words:  If you commit suicide, you steal life from those that love you and kill the dreams of your loved ones. Your loved ones will suffer agonizing penetrating pain that will pierce their hearts and souls.

Your death will be so devastating that your loved one's lives will never be the same again -  their wounds will never heal, their broken hearts will never mend, their tears will never end.

So STAY!  If you are thinking of suicide, STAY - your family and friends need you and depend on you. If you are planning to commit suicide, STAY - your family and friends love and care for you. You bring joy and happiness to more people than you realize.

So, just STAY for one more day. When tomorrow comes, STAY  for one more day. Please STAY one more day and the day will arrive when the light will silently come through the darkness, hope will slowly spring from the depression.

STAY and the world around you will gradually change from black and white to a beautiful bouquet of bright colors - the sun will shine and you will be happy you stayed.

Contact: fortheheartcries@gmail.com

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